The third post in The Daily Prism 4-part sharing of a Chopra Center article, 4 Tips to Having a Healthy Debate, discusses knowing the truth and facts of your point of view. Becoming mindful of your information's source is extremely important to a healthy debate. You can bet that information from a highly charged one-sided political, ideological, or "news" website, will exclude facts and references that may well be germane to the discussion. For healthy debate with those who see an issue from another point of view, research is the key to a civil and mutually-satisfactory debate.
People tend to be more emotional during the current state of humanity. This is wonderful, but also dangerous. You live in a tech age with information firing at you like a rocket full of confetti. Grabbing one piece and calling it truth or getting upset is not helpful to either side.
When it comes to your stance on any topic, I highly suggest learning as much as possible. Yes, this means you sometimes have to read or watch your counterpart’s favorite shows. For example, in sports one team watches the rival team’s previous games. Countless hours are spent playing back how they move, talk, run, communicate, etc. Anything you intend to change or achieve in life is the same. Here are some tips:
- Go back into the history of the topic.
- Ask older generations their perspectives as well as small children. How do humans see differently now vs. then?
- Ask the tough questions to verify how much the other and yourself believe what is being said and how much is from the fear of being authentic. Authenticity can be a scary place when you are the only one in a particular environment who is on the opposite opinion.
- What evolution has been made on the situation? Has the other side contributed in a positive way?